Self-Care

Seeing the True Colors of People When You’re Experiencing Trauma

The true colors of loved ones, friends, and strangers come to life when you’re experiencing a major life event, trauma or grief. That itself can add another layer of hurt and betrayal that then needs its own healing. I don’t know why people choose to do this to those in pain. It’s likely their own stuff (ego, insecurities, entitlement) being deflected, but whatever it is, it’s not helpful to anyone.

The true colors of loved ones, friends, and strangers come to life when you’re experiencing a major life event, trauma or grief. That itself can add another layer of hurt and betrayal that then needs its own healing.

I don’t know why people choose to do this to those in pain. It’s likely their own stuff (ego, insecurities, entitlement) being deflected, but whatever it is, it’s not helpful to anyone. I am still recovering from Continue Reading

Inspiration

Deadline Cup

Who else is drinking coffee at 5pm to get those deadlines done? 🕵🏻‍♀️

Who else is drinking coffee at 5 pm to get those deadlines done? 🕵🏻‍♀️

Self-Care

I Am Making a List of My Moral Code

I’m making a list. ✌🏻

I Am Making a List of My Moral Code

Several lists, in fact. One list of lies I’ve been telling myself for far too long. Another on habits I want to break/change. Next, ways to reduce my daily stress. Then my hard boundaries. And maybe more lists after that. I will carry these lists with as a reminder of what my moral code is.